Relationship Resources
Recommended Reads and Resources for Stronger Relationships

I don’t want to talk about it
Author: Terry Real
Year: 1998
Publisher: Scribner

Breaking the patterns of depression
Author: Michael Yapko
Year: 1998
Publisher: Harmony

Hand me down blues
Author: Michael Yapko
Year: 2000
Publisher: Golden Guides, St Martin’s Press

Depression is contagious
Author: Michael Yapko
Year: 2009
Publisher: Atria Books
Michaels Website: https://yapko.com

The Ten Best Anxiety Management Techniques
Year: 2008
Publisher: Norton

The Fear & Anxiety Solution
Year: 2012
Publisher: Sounds True

Mindfulness for Teen Anxiety
Year: 2014
Publisher: New Harbinger

DARE – The New Way to Stop Anxiety & End Panic Attacks
Year: 2015
Publisher: BMD Publishing

Panic & Anxiety Relief – The No B.S. Guide to Regaining Control of Your Fear
Year: 2014
Publisher: Self-published / Unknown

Neurosculpting for Anxiety
Year: 2016
Publisher: Sounds True

Is he Mr Right?
Author: Mira Kirshenbaum
Year: 2006
Publisher: Crown Archetype

Why marriages succeed or fail
Author: John Gottman
Year: 1995
Publisher: Shuster

What makes love last
Author: John Gottman
Year: 1995
Publisher: Simon & Shuster

The seven principles for making marriages work
Author: John Gottman,
Year: 2014
Publisher: Random House

The relationship cure
Author: John Gottman
Year: 2002
Publisher: Random House

Ten lessons to transform your marriage
Author: John Gottman
Year: 2007
Publisher: Simon & Shuster

I don’t want to talk about it
Author: Terry Real
Year: 1998
Publisher: Scribner

The new rules of marriage
Author: Terry Real
Year: 2008
Publisher: Ballantine Books

How can I get through to you?
Author: Terry Real
Year: 2002
Publisher: Scribner

Wired for love
Author: Stan Tatkin
Year: 2012
Publisher: New Harbinger Publication
Stan Tatkin’s Website: www.stantatkin.com

Love and war in Intimate relationships
Author: Stan Tatkin
Year: 2011
Publisher: Norton & Co
Stan Tatkin’s Website: www.stantatkin.com

CD Set
Your brain on love
Author: Stan Tatkin
Year: 2013
Publisher: Sounds True
Stan Tatkin’s Website: www.stantatkin.com

After the honeymoon
Author: Dan Wile
Year: 2008
Publisher: Daniel Wile
Dan Wiles Website: www.danwile.com

After the fight
Author: Dan Wile
Year: 1995
Publisher: The Guilford Press
Dan Wiles Website: www.danwile.com

CD Set
Men, Women & Worthiness – The Experience of Shame & the Power of Being Enough
Author: Brene Brown,
Year: 2012
Publisher: Sounds True

The New Rules of Marriage – What You Need to Know to Make Love Work
Author: Terrence Real
Year: 2007
Publisher: Random house
Terry Real’s Website: www.terryreal.com

The Science of Trust – Emotional Attunment for Couples
Author: John Gottman
Year: 2011
Publisher: Norton
John Gottmans Website: www.gottman.com

Not Just Friends
Author: Shirley P. Glass,
Year: 2003
Publisher: Free Press

When good people have affairs
Author: Mira Kirshenbaum
Year: 2010
Publisher: St Martin’s Press
Mia Kirshenbaum’s website: www.chestnuthillinstitute.com/blog

I love you but I don’t trust you
Author: Mira Kirshenbaum
Year: 2012
Publisher: Berkley Trade
www.chestnuthillinstitute.com/blog

How to help your spouse heal from your affair
Author: Linda MacDonald
Year: 2010
Publisher: Creativespace Independent publishing platform

After the affair
Author: Janis Spring
Year: 2012
Publisher: William Morrow

How can I forgive you?
Author: Janis Spring
Year: 2005
Publisher: William Morrow

The Journey from Abandonment to healing
Author: Susan Anderson
Year: 2000
Publisher: Berkley

It’s called a breakup because it’s broken
Author: Greg Behrendt & Amira Ruotola-Behrendt
Year: 2008
Publisher: Harmony

Getting past your breakup
Author: Susan Elliott
Year: 2009
Publisher: Da Capo Lifelong Books

CD Set
Uncoupling
Author: Diane Vaughan
Year: 1990
Publisher: Penguin Books

Too good to leave, too bad to stay
Author: Mira Kirshenbaum
Year: 1997
Publisher: Plume

Should you leave?
Author: Peter Kramer
Year: 1999
Publisher: Penguin Books

CD Set
It’s not your fault CoCo Bear
Author: Vicki Lanski
Year: 1997
Publisher: Book Peddlers

CD
Two homes
Author: Claire Masurel
Year: 2003
Publisher: Candlewick

Standing on my own two feet
Author: Tamara Schmitz
Year: 2008
Publisher: Price, Stern Sloane

CD Set
How to help your spouse heal from your affair
Author: Linda MacDonald
Year: 2010
Publisher: Creativespace Independent publishing platform

Audio / CD
Mindfulness – A Practical Guide to Awakening
Author: Joseph Goldstein
Year: 2016
Publisher: Sounds True

How to Meditate – A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind
Author: Pema Chodron
Year: 2013
Publisher: Sounds True

Hand me down blues
Author: Michael Yapko
Year: 2000
Publisher: Golden Guides, St Martin’s Press

Mindfulness Meditation for Pain Relief
Author: Jon Kabat-Zinn
Year: 2010
Publisher: Sounds True

How to Meditate – A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind
Author: Jon Kabat-Zinn
Year: 2012
Publisher: Sounds True

Wherever You Go, There You Are

Arriving at Your Own Door – 108 Lessons in Mindfulness
Author: Jon Kabat-Zinn
Year: 2007
Publisher: Hyperion

Mindfulness Meditation – Nine Guided Practices to Awaken Presence & Open Your Heart
Author: Tara Brach
Year: 2012
Publisher: Sounds True

Gottsex?
Author: John Gottman & Julie Schwartz
Year: 2012
Publisher: DVD program
Mating in captivity
Author: Esther Perel
Year: 2006
Publisher: Harper

Passionate Marriage – Keeping Love & Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships
Author: David Schnarch
Year: 1997
Publisher: Norton & Co.
Undefended Love
Author: Jett Pasris & Marlena S. Lyons
Year: 2000
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Sex for one
Author: Betty Dobson
Year: 1987

For yourself
Author: Lonnie Barbach
Year: 1975

She comes first
Author: Ian Kerner
Year: 2004

Becoming Cliterate
Author: Laurie Mintz
Year: 2017
Sex Talk
Author: Vannesa Martin
Year: 2017

How to talk so kids will listen, and listen so kids will talk
Author: Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
Year: 2012
Publisher: Scribner

The gifts of imperfect parenting

And baby makes three
Author: John Gottman
Year: 2007
Publisher: Crown / Three Rivers press

Parenting from the Inside out
Author: Dan Siegel and Mary Hartzell
Year: 2013
Publisher: Tarcher

Brainstorm
Author: Dan Siegel
Year: 2014
Publisher: Tarcher

No drama discipline
Author: Dan Siegel
Year: 2014
Publisher: Bantam

Building Emotional Intelligence
Author: Linda Lantieri & Daniel Goleman
Year: 2014
Publisher: Sounds True

John Gottman & Joan Declaire
Author: Simon & Schuster
Year: 1997

