Relationship Resources

Recommended Reads and Resources for Stronger Relationships

Audio / CD

I don’t want to talk about it

Author: Terry Real
Year: 1998
Publisher: Scribner

Book

Breaking the patterns of depression

Author: Michael Yapko
Year: 1998
Publisher: Harmony

Audio / Book + Audio Combo

Hand me down blues

Author: Michael Yapko
Year: 2000
Publisher: Golden Guides, St Martin’s Press

Book

Depression is contagious

Author: Michael Yapko
Year: 2009
Publisher: Atria Books
Michaels Website: https://yapko.com

Book

The Ten Best Anxiety Management Techniques

Author: Margaret Wehrenberg
Year: 2008
Publisher: Norton
Book

The Fear & Anxiety Solution

Author: Friedemann Schaub
Year: 2012
Publisher: Sounds True
Book

Mindfulness for Teen Anxiety

Author: Christopher Willard
Year: 2014
Publisher: New Harbinger
Book

DARE – The New Way to Stop Anxiety & End Panic Attacks

Author: Barry McDonagh
Year: 2015
Publisher: BMD Publishing
Book

Panic & Anxiety Relief – The No B.S. Guide to Regaining Control of Your Fear

Author: Jeff Gunn
Year: 2014
Publisher: Self-published / Unknown
Audio / Book + Audio Combo

Neurosculpting for Anxiety

Author: Lisa Wimberger
Year: 2016
Publisher: Sounds True
Book

Is he Mr Right?

Author: Mira Kirshenbaum
Year: 2006
Publisher: Crown Archetype

Book

Why marriages succeed or fail

Author: John Gottman
Year: 1995
Publisher: Shuster

Book

What makes love last

Author: John Gottman
Year: 1995
Publisher: Simon & Shuster

Book

The seven principles for making marriages work

Author: John Gottman,
Year: 2014
Publisher: Random House

Book

The relationship cure

Author:  John Gottman
Year: 2002
Publisher: Random House

Book

Ten lessons to transform your marriage

Author: John Gottman
Year: 2007
Publisher: Simon & Shuster

Book

I don’t want to talk about it

Author: Terry Real
Year: 1998
Publisher: Scribner

Book

The new rules of marriage

Author:  Terry Real
Year: 2008
Publisher: Ballantine Books

Book

How can I get through to you?

Author: Terry Real
Year: 2002
Publisher: Scribner

Book

Wired for love

Author: Stan Tatkin
Year: 2012
Publisher: New Harbinger Publication
Stan Tatkin’s Website: www.stantatkin.com

Book

Love and war in Intimate relationships

Author: Stan Tatkin
Year: 2011
Publisher: Norton & Co
Stan Tatkin’s Website: www.stantatkin.com

CD Set

Your brain on love

Author: Stan Tatkin
Year: 2013
Publisher: Sounds True
Stan Tatkin’s Website: www.stantatkin.com

Book

After the honeymoon

Author: Dan Wile
Year: 2008
Publisher: Daniel Wile
Dan Wiles Website: www.danwile.com

Book

After the fight

Author: Dan Wile
Year: 1995
Publisher: The Guilford Press
Dan Wiles Website: www.danwile.com

CD Set

Men, Women & Worthiness – The Experience of Shame & the Power of Being Enough

Author:  Brene Brown,
Year: 2012
Publisher: Sounds True

Book

The New Rules of Marriage – What You Need to Know to Make Love Work

Author: Terrence Real
Year: 2007
Publisher: Random house
Terry Real’s Website: www.terryreal.com

Book

The Science of Trust – Emotional Attunment for Couples

Author: John Gottman
Year: 2011
Publisher: Norton
John Gottmans Website: www.gottman.com

CD Set

Not Just Friends

Author:  Shirley P. Glass,
Year: 2003
Publisher: Free Press

Book

When good people have affairs

Author: Mira Kirshenbaum
Year: 2010
Publisher: St Martin’s Press
Mia Kirshenbaum’s website: www.chestnuthillinstitute.com/blog

Book

I love you but I don’t trust you

Author: Mira Kirshenbaum
Year: 2012
Publisher: Berkley Trade
www.chestnuthillinstitute.com/blog

CD Set

How to help your spouse heal from your affair

Author: Linda MacDonald
Year: 2010
Publisher: Creativespace Independent publishing platform

Book

After the affair

Author: Janis Spring
Year: 2012
Publisher: William Morrow

Book

How can I forgive you?

Author: Janis Spring
Year: 2005
Publisher: William Morrow

CD Set

The Journey from Abandonment to healing

Author: Susan Anderson
Year: 2000
Publisher: Berkley

Book

It’s called a breakup because it’s broken

Author: Greg Behrendt  & Amira Ruotola-Behrendt
Year: 2008
Publisher: Harmony

Book

Getting past your breakup

Author: Susan Elliott
Year: 2009
Publisher: Da Capo Lifelong Books

CD Set

Uncoupling

Author: Diane Vaughan
Year: 1990
Publisher: Penguin Books

Book

Too good to leave, too bad to stay

Author: Mira Kirshenbaum
Year: 1997
Publisher: Plume

Book

Should you leave?

Author: Peter Kramer
Year: 1999
Publisher: Penguin Books

CD Set

It’s not your fault CoCo Bear

Author: Vicki Lanski
Year: 1997
Publisher: Book Peddlers

CD

Two homes

Author: Claire Masurel
Year: 2003
Publisher: Candlewick

Book

Standing on my own two feet

Author: Tamara Schmitz
Year: 2008
Publisher: Price, Stern Sloane

CD Set

How to help your spouse heal from your affair

Author: Linda MacDonald
Year: 2010
Publisher: Creativespace Independent publishing platform

Audio / CD

Mindfulness – A Practical Guide to Awakening

Author: Joseph Goldstein
Year: 2016
Publisher: Sounds True

Book

How to Meditate – A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

Author: Pema Chodron
Year: 2013
Publisher: Sounds True

Audio / Book + Audio Combo

Hand me down blues

Author: Michael Yapko
Year: 2000
Publisher: Golden Guides, St Martin’s Press

Audio / CD

Mindfulness Meditation for Pain Relief

Author: Jon Kabat-Zinn
Year: 2010
Publisher: Sounds True

Book

How to Meditate – A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

Author: Jon Kabat-Zinn
Year: 2012
Publisher: Sounds True

Audio / Book + Audio Combo

Wherever You Go, There You Are

Author: Jon Kabat-Zinn Year: 1994 Publisher: Hyperion
Audio / CD

Arriving at Your Own Door – 108 Lessons in Mindfulness

Author: Jon Kabat-Zinn
Year: 2007
Publisher: Hyperion

Audio / CD

Mindfulness Meditation – Nine Guided Practices to Awaken Presence & Open Your Heart

Author: Tara Brach
Year: 2012
Publisher: Sounds True

DVD program

Gottsex?

Author: John Gottman & Julie Schwartz
Year: 2012
Publisher: DVD program

Book

Mating in captivity

Author: Esther Perel
Year: 2006
Publisher: Harper

Book

Passionate Marriage – Keeping Love & Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships

Author: David Schnarch
Year: 1997
Publisher: Norton & Co.

Book

Undefended Love

Author: Jett Pasris & Marlena S. Lyons
Year: 2000
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Book

Sex for one

Author: Betty Dobson
Year: 1987

Book

For yourself

Author: Lonnie Barbach
Year: 1975

Book

She comes first

Author: Ian Kerner
Year: 2004

Book

Becoming Cliterate

Author: Laurie Mintz
Year: 2017

Book

Sex Talk

Author: Vannesa Martin
Year: 2017

Book

How to talk so kids will listen, and listen so kids will talk

Author: Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
Year: 2012
Publisher: Scribner

CD

The gifts of imperfect parenting

Author: Brene Brown Year: 2013 Publisher: Sounds True
Book

And baby makes three

Author: John Gottman
Year: 2007
Publisher: Crown / Three Rivers press

Book

Parenting from the Inside out

Author: Dan Siegel and Mary Hartzell
Year: 2013
Publisher: Tarcher

Book

Brainstorm

Author: Dan Siegel
Year: 2014
Publisher: Tarcher

Book

No drama discipline

Author: Dan Siegel
Year: 2014
Publisher: Bantam

Book

Building Emotional Intelligence

Author: Linda Lantieri & Daniel Goleman
Year: 2014
Publisher: Sounds True

Book

John Gottman & Joan Declaire

Author: Simon & Schuster
Year: 1997

Dan Siegels Website